shanology:

shanology:

deanpinterester:

there’s a difference between the ‘enemies-to-lovers’ trope and shipping someone with their abuser

Reblogging again for @deirdrearchleone‘s insightful tags:

#the difference is that enemies are on a somewhat equal power balance#and can give as good (or as bad) as they get#whereas a large part of abuse is the abuser using the large power imbalance weighted in their favor to hurt their victim