mental illness does not give you a free pass to control people, no one no matter how good a lover or a friend is, they are not obligated to be there 24/7 for you, thats not how life works, people are allowed to have other friends and be with other people besides you, yeah it hurt sometimes but thats life, if you’re jealous of every single person you friend/lover is with that’s not you that’s not healthy, people leave sometimes and you have to except that, no matter how much you love someone it does not give you the option for them be only yours, they are people not property