feminismandhappiness:

pomo-phobic:

ficklewitchsupporter:

grumpy-radfem:

aphobiakills:

anyway bi people can fucking call themselves gay if they want 

no

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Look at this homophobe’s entitlement. They want to be both bi and gay, rendering “gay” a completely useless word for ACTUAL gay people to name ourselves and our unique experiences and problems. Meanwhile entitled bi ppl are the first to say “bi ppl aren’t gay or straight!!”, then call themselves gay and cry “erasure” when people don’t call them “bi.” I will never understand such entitlement or the mental gymnastics they have to do to sustain it.

Then stop calling same sex marriage gay marriage. Stop calling lgtb rights gay rights. Stop calling lgtb pride gay pride. Stop calling lesbians gay. Stop calling bars for same sex attracted people gay bars. You can’t use gay as an umbrella term *and* be offended when people use it as an umbrella term. You get mad at bi people for wanted to be included in the umbrella, you don’t get mad about everything being called Gay exclusively when it isn’t. I’d also say I would never understand such entitlement or the mental gymnastics you have to do to sustain it, but I get it. Biphobia is a hell of a drug.